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		<title>Comment on Why Are There So Many Banks in NYC? by Spencer</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2007/11/19/why-are-there-so-many-banks-in-nyc/#comment-1423</link>
		<dc:creator>Spencer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now that&#039;s just silly Auntie.  The number of banks is determined by the demand for them.  If people didn&#039;t need their services, they would begin to disappear, starting with the ones that were worst at cutting costs to deal with less business.  If people didn&#039;t need them, they wouldn&#039;t be there!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now that&#8217;s just silly Auntie.  The number of banks is determined by the demand for them.  If people didn&#8217;t need their services, they would begin to disappear, starting with the ones that were worst at cutting costs to deal with less business.  If people didn&#8217;t need them, they wouldn&#8217;t be there!</p>
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		<title>Comment on James Frey Has Excellent Taste in Art by HonestChitChat</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2009/05/15/james-frey-has-excellent-taste-in-art/#comment-1421</link>
		<dc:creator>HonestChitChat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 19:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James Frey is still alive? I thought Oprah banished him to a island off the coast and he was being eaten by wild lizards? So glad he&#039;s still chillin&#039; with man kind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James Frey is still alive? I thought Oprah banished him to a island off the coast and he was being eaten by wild lizards? So glad he&#8217;s still chillin&#8217; with man kind.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Throw a SpeakEasy Party by Ruth</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/how-to-throw-a-speakeasy-party/#comment-1417</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 23:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m planning my 40th with a 1920s fancy dress speakeasy theme &amp; this info was very informative and helpful, thanks heaps :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m planning my 40th with a 1920s fancy dress speakeasy theme &amp; this info was very informative and helpful, thanks heaps <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Having a Networking Party by Cybel Martin</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2009/05/02/having-a-networking-party/#comment-1416</link>
		<dc:creator>Cybel Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 19:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you, Dr. Jayme, for adding some science to what is essentially my intuitiveness about parties. Very much appreciated. I did a little researching on &quot;superordinate goals&quot; and found this article, &quot;Hooping with the Enemy&quot; ( http://tinyurl.com/d2y7vy ) at ESPN.com.

&quot; Muzafer Sherif coined the term &quot;superordinate goals&quot; to describe the process by which two competing groups develop goals that &quot;are compelling but cannot be achieved by the efforts of one group alone.&quot;

Sherif stumbled upon the idea while doing experiments with boys at a summer camp. After a number of unsuccessful attempts to mediate disputes between the two groups, Sherif had counselors at the camp sabotage the water supply. The only way for the boys to fix the problem was to work together. After the boys fixed the problem, Sherif reported that conflicts between them de-escalated and future conflict was reduced. Sherif noted a sharp decrease in name-calling and derogation of the out-group after the superordinate goal was achieved. He also found that the boys were less likely to glorify or brag about the in-group.

He concluded that group contact, even with dialogue, can lead to further argument and recriminations without superordinate goals. However, when superordinate goals were present, communication between groups moved in the direction of reducing conflict.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Dr. Jayme, for adding some science to what is essentially my intuitiveness about parties. Very much appreciated. I did a little researching on &#8220;superordinate goals&#8221; and found this article, &#8220;Hooping with the Enemy&#8221; ( <a href="http://tinyurl.com/d2y7vy" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/d2y7vy</a> ) at ESPN.com.</p>
<p>&#8221; Muzafer Sherif coined the term &#8220;superordinate goals&#8221; to describe the process by which two competing groups develop goals that &#8220;are compelling but cannot be achieved by the efforts of one group alone.&#8221;</p>
<p>Sherif stumbled upon the idea while doing experiments with boys at a summer camp. After a number of unsuccessful attempts to mediate disputes between the two groups, Sherif had counselors at the camp sabotage the water supply. The only way for the boys to fix the problem was to work together. After the boys fixed the problem, Sherif reported that conflicts between them de-escalated and future conflict was reduced. Sherif noted a sharp decrease in name-calling and derogation of the out-group after the superordinate goal was achieved. He also found that the boys were less likely to glorify or brag about the in-group.</p>
<p>He concluded that group contact, even with dialogue, can lead to further argument and recriminations without superordinate goals. However, when superordinate goals were present, communication between groups moved in the direction of reducing conflict.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Having a Networking Party by drjayme</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2009/05/02/having-a-networking-party/#comment-1414</link>
		<dc:creator>drjayme</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 06:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I particularly like no 5 its based on the social psychology concept of super ordinate goals. If you give people who are separate a common problem to solve they will bond.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I particularly like no 5 its based on the social psychology concept of super ordinate goals. If you give people who are separate a common problem to solve they will bond.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Champagne Punch Made Easy by Toga! Toga! Toga! (How to Update a Roman/Grecian Party) &#171; Auntie Carrie&#8217;s Speak Easy</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2007/04/16/champagne-punch-made-easy/#comment-1408</link>
		<dc:creator>Toga! Toga! Toga! (How to Update a Roman/Grecian Party) &#171; Auntie Carrie&#8217;s Speak Easy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 18:14:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Yes punch is evil but it is a necessary evil. Be kind to your guests and swap out the grain liquor for a Cava or top shelf [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Yes punch is evil but it is a necessary evil. Be kind to your guests and swap out the grain liquor for a Cava or top shelf [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Throw A Party by Toga! Toga! Toga! (How to Update a Roman/Grecian Party) &#171; Auntie Carrie&#8217;s Speak Easy</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2007/01/07/how-to-throw-a-party/#comment-1407</link>
		<dc:creator>Toga! Toga! Toga! (How to Update a Roman/Grecian Party) &#171; Auntie Carrie&#8217;s Speak Easy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 18:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of all, of course, follow my basic steps on How to Throw a Party. This is what I would do to be Toga/Antiquities [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Who Is This Jack Lamb? by Sushi Fiend</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2006/01/10/who-is-this-jack-lamb/#comment-1406</link>
		<dc:creator>Sushi Fiend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I worked there for two years. Yes he was in the Army in Germany. He also lies about the food and wine to the guests giving them cheaper versions of what they ask for. He also tells the vegetarians that the miso soup (that has bonito) is vegetarian to make money. He also cheated on his wife with another Korean waitress and sexually harassed others. Oh wait...he also takes a full captain&#039;s cut of tips every night. Great couple, lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked there for two years. Yes he was in the Army in Germany. He also lies about the food and wine to the guests giving them cheaper versions of what they ask for. He also tells the vegetarians that the miso soup (that has bonito) is vegetarian to make money. He also cheated on his wife with another Korean waitress and sexually harassed others. Oh wait&#8230;he also takes a full captain&#8217;s cut of tips every night. Great couple, lol.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Self Publishing an Art Book (and other good stuff) by Cybel Martin</title>
		<link>http://auntiecarrie.wordpress.com/2008/12/07/self-publishing-an-art-book-and-other-good-stuff/#comment-1404</link>
		<dc:creator>Cybel Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 12:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Ms Honest CC

You are such a delight!

1. Currently, you can only purchase my two books on Blurb.com. Here is the exact link: http://www.blurb.com/user/store/Cybel

2. My book is for everyone. I&#039;ve been talking to a local NYC bookstore about selling the books there as well. When that deal comes through, I will DEFINITELY post something. 

3. Like I said, you are a delight. Thank you! And your blog is in my RSS feed. I don&#039;t always comment but I always take notes. : )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Ms Honest CC</p>
<p>You are such a delight!</p>
<p>1. Currently, you can only purchase my two books on Blurb.com. Here is the exact link: <a href="http://www.blurb.com/user/store/Cybel" rel="nofollow">http://www.blurb.com/user/store/Cybel</a></p>
<p>2. My book is for everyone. I&#8217;ve been talking to a local NYC bookstore about selling the books there as well. When that deal comes through, I will DEFINITELY post something. </p>
<p>3. Like I said, you are a delight. Thank you! And your blog is in my RSS feed. I don&#8217;t always comment but I always take notes. : )</p>
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